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Thursday, June 2, 2011

Rich Words On Frank Rich's Birthday



I am a fan of Frank Rich & his writings. His memoir- Ghost Light is one of my favorite books about the theatre. I was lucky to see him in 2008 in a conversation with Stephen Sondheim at the Newmark Theatre in Portland, What an evening! I always looked forward to his theatre reviews, even when I disagreed with his assertions & I treasure his Op-Ed pieces in the NY Times. What he says today about the Gay Rights Movement & the history of Stonewall is beautifully written & important. He is a reminder of how our straight allies make a very real difference in our struggle.

Frank Rich is a treasure. Is it really possible that he didn't know one single out person while he was at Harvard? I think this Op-Ed is a timely reminder of how much work is still to be done & that Forty Years Later: Still Second Class Americans.

For the first time, a majority of Americans (52 percent) believe “gays & lesbians should have a constitutional right to get married", according to a recent CNN poll.

Rich: "None of this means that full equality for gay Americans is a done deal. Even if it were, that would be scant consolation to the latest minority groups to enter the pantheon of American scapegoats, Hispanic immigrants and Muslims. We are still a young, imperfect, unfinished country. As a young black man working as a nurse in a 1980s AIDS clinic memorably says in 'Angels in America' by Tony Kushner:  “The white cracker who wrote the national anthem knew what he was doing. He set the word ‘free’ to a note so high nobody can reach it.”

Rich left the NY Times this spring, after 31 years, where he was the lead Theatre Critic until 1994 when he became an Op-Ed columnist. He is now with my favorite publication- New York Magazine. Happy Birthday, Mr Rich!

Tuesday, November 30, 2010

Born On This Day- November 30th... Gay Ally Elliott Blackstone

Our allies can come from the most unexpected places & change the daily lives of gay people through the dignity that they bring to the work they do.

Sgt. Blackstone was born in Montana on this day in1924. After finishing high school, he served in the Navy during World War II. He joined the San Francisco Police Department in 1949.

Sgt. Blackstone was a pioneer of community-based policing, once remarking that being a cop was like being "a social worker with a badge." In 1962, after the "gayola" scandal involving police demanding payoffs from gay bar owners, he was appointed the first SFPD liaison to the gay community. He was present during a police raid of a gay New Year's ball in 1965, where an officer shoved his wife, assuming she was a drag queen.

Asked why he, as a straight man, took such an active role on behalf of gay & transgender people, Sgt. Blackstone replied, "Because it was the right thing to do."

Blackstone was the 2006 San Francisco Pride Parade Grand Marshal. He also received commendations from the California State Senate, the California State Assembly, & the San Francisco Human Rights Commission.

He says he was just doing his job, although at the time police brass gave him no support.


Elliot Blackstone planted a seed to grow San Francisco into a city that was welcoming & a place that all people are treated equal. He became the first retired officer to receive a commendation from the Police Commission. Blackstone was the first police liaison to the GLBT community in 1962, after a bribery scandal involving gay bars & the police. At that time, the issue for gay rights at the department was different.

Blackstone: "They hated me. They thought it was wrong for a policeman to associate with these faggots, but they needed help, so I helped."


Blackstone worked with what were then called "homophile" organizations, such as the Mattachine Society & the Daughters of Bilitis, to end police entrapment of gay men in public bathrooms. He trained police recruits on how to handle the community by bringing in gays, lesbians & transgender people to talk about their lives.

He helped establish an anti-poverty office in the Tenderloin that employed transsexual workers. When the city was unwilling to pay for hormones for transgender people, Blackstone took up a donation at his church & distributed the drugs for free. He attended gay galas and was the face of the department for the community. He was a pioneer & somebody whose amazing accomplishments have been forgotten for too long.

Blackstone fought against prejudice & stigma at a time when the rights of gays were ignored, & helped to create a ripple of positive change.



Elliot Blackstone died in late October 2006 at the age of 82.